Don’t Change… BECOME!

Me: Hey God. God: Hello..... Me: I'm falling apart. Can you put me back together? God: I would rather not. Me: Why? God: Because you aren't a puzzle. Me: What about all of the pieces of my life that are falling down onto the ground? God: Let them stay there for a while. They fell … Continue reading Don’t Change… BECOME!

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Depression is not simple – it’s more than being ‘sad’

It’s hard to tell if a person is depressed unless they break down in front of you or manage to tell you themselves. Depression doesn’t leave scars, not always. And it’s hard to say how bad it is if you can’t see the wound. I've been suffering from depression for a long time now, and depression has … Continue reading Depression is not simple – it’s more than being ‘sad’

Why do some people become more interested in people who ignore them?

I’m answering this from a woman’s point of view and I prefer the word ‘aloof’ rather than ‘ignore’. Most women have found that when they’re not really into a man, some men will come on even stronger. They’re attracted to women who appear unavailable. Women who are aloof always do seem to get the guy, because they … Continue reading Why do some people become more interested in people who ignore them?

How weird is it to be in love with two people at the same time? Is it genuinely possible? Does that make someone stupid, or is it just a rule that our great society has come up with for us?

You cannot have the same feelings for 2 different people at the same time. Though you might feel you love them equally, one is definitely closer to your heart than the other. Try this once: ~ Take a break from both for say, a week. Whom do you miss more? Who do you secretly wish … Continue reading How weird is it to be in love with two people at the same time? Is it genuinely possible? Does that make someone stupid, or is it just a rule that our great society has come up with for us?

I’m heartbroken. How do I remind myself that I’m worthy?

Broken hearts are mainly caused by unfulfilment of our expectations coupled with low self-esteem. Often we think so low of ourselves, we put our whole life in the hands of one person to get 'happiness' and when that happiness is withdrawn, the pain of losing it is too much to bear. We meet someone, we like … Continue reading I’m heartbroken. How do I remind myself that I’m worthy?

What if I fell in love with a girl who is very happily committed?

There is no good ending. You fell in love with her, I get it. But here’s the thing... you can love her and she could love you back, but it still won’t end well. You and her can develop an emotional relationship, fall in love, and have an affair. No matter what, it won’t succeed. … Continue reading What if I fell in love with a girl who is very happily committed?