You cannot have the same feelings for 2 different people at the same time. Though you might feel you love them equally, one is definitely closer to your heart than the other.
Try this once:
~ Take a break from both for say, a week. Whom do you miss more? Who do you secretly wish contacted you?
~ Picture your lovers with a partner other than you. I’m sure there will be one person whom your heart will refuse to see with a person other than you.
~ If one of them asks you to stop all contacts with the another, would you be able to let go? Rather whom will you find more difficult to let go?
~ When you’re extremely happy or extremely sad who’s the first one that comes to your mind?
~ Whom do you call first in the morning and last in the night?
~ Whom do you picture yourself with, in the future?
Both individuals might be great, and both individuals might make solid partners. But even if you’re split right down the middle, you’ll often have that gut feeling that’ll give one person even just a slight advantage. Follow that intuition. But when you do come to a decision, try to stick to it. The best thing you can do in this situation is to take the time to cultivate and love yourself. It’ll help you to be more aware of the characteristics in a partner that matter most to you and ultimately will make your decision a little easier.