It’s hard to tell if a person is depressed unless they break down in front of you or manage to tell you themselves. Depression doesn’t leave scars, not always. And it’s hard to say how bad it is if you can’t see the wound. I've been suffering from depression for a long time now, and depression has … Continue reading Depression is not simple – it’s more than being ‘sad’
An Open Letter To Myself
How are you? I hope you are doing so well in life right now. To start off with, I am so proud of you. Life hasn’t been too easy on you lately, and I am truly sorry about that. But despite it all, you have managed to keep your head up and continue fighting throughout. … Continue reading An Open Letter To Myself
My Relationship Has “No Future”, But That’s Okay
To love is to brave separation, heartbreak, risk, pain, death, and a thousand other things. Loving a man who cannot stay has taught me more than I ever imagined. I am in love with a guy who is not here to stay. We met in the college. While he cannot give me promises of "happily ever … Continue reading My Relationship Has “No Future”, But That’s Okay
Mixed Signals — What do they mean?
Mixed signals are the bane of the dating scene. Navigating that cloudy space between the first date and the "what are we?' conversation is like crawling through uncharted territory full of words and actions that don't quite add up. Like, the person you're dating hasn't responded to your last text, but they watched your Instagram … Continue reading Mixed Signals — What do they mean?
Struggling To Move On From Unrequited Love
We've all been there... the friend you secretly love, the crush you've been chasing for months, or the long-term relationship that ended ruthlessly without warning. Whether you've had to endure the gut-churning pain of a friendzone speech, a flat-out refusal, or the agony of a long term breakup, the result is the same... REJECTION. What … Continue reading Struggling To Move On From Unrequited Love
Appreciate What You Have
When two people first meet, things can be really new and exciting. It's all we can think about. Every text and every date creates goosebumps all over our bodies. But overtime, that excitement starts to wear off. That shiny new relationship begins to lose its shine and we can't help but think "Is there someone … Continue reading Appreciate What You Have
You Are Worthy
Maybe people will only realize your worth if you stop chasing them. If you stop giving them your attention, your time, and your efforts. Sometimes you need to act like you don't care and stop pursuing them. Some people think that you'll never get tired because you love them. Well, love never gets tired but … Continue reading You Are Worthy
Don’t Change… BECOME!
Me: Hey God. God: Hello..... Me: I'm falling apart. Can you put me back together? God: I would rather not. Me: Why? God: Because you aren't a puzzle. Me: What about all of the pieces of my life that are falling down onto the ground? God: Let them stay there for a while. They fell … Continue reading Don’t Change… BECOME!
One Day…
One day, you will meet someone who'll go extra mile just to put a smile on your face. Someone whose deeds matches his/her words. Someone who'll remind you how precious you are and will take care of you. Someone who'll understand your sentiments as well as your silence. Someone who'll put you above his/her pride. … Continue reading One Day…
Don’t Promise Love
Don't promise love. Because when you can't keep that promise, people don't doubt you... they'll doubt love. Empty promises can be worse than lies. Because you don't just make people believe, you make them hope. Don't promise someone a future when you can't visualize and deeply see it together with them. And don't promise someone … Continue reading Don’t Promise Love
Why do some people become more interested in people who ignore them?
I’m answering this from a woman’s point of view and I prefer the word ‘aloof’ rather than ‘ignore’. Most women have found that when they’re not really into a man, some men will come on even stronger. They’re attracted to women who appear unavailable. Women who are aloof always do seem to get the guy, because they … Continue reading Why do some people become more interested in people who ignore them?
Negativities
” I can't dance. ”” I can't sing. ”” I can't draw. ”In short, I don't have talents.” I'm afraid of people. ”” I'm afraid of the world. ”” I'm afraid to the society. ”In short, I'm a coward.” They will hurt me. ”” They will forget me. ”” They will leave me, someday. ”In … Continue reading Negativities