We've all been there... the friend you secretly love, the crush you've been chasing for months, or the long-term relationship that ended ruthlessly without warning. Whether you've had to endure the gut-churning pain of a friendzone speech, a flat-out refusal, or the agony of a long term breakup, the result is the same... REJECTION. What … Continue reading Struggling To Move On From Unrequited Love
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Depression is not simple – it’s more than being ‘sad’
It’s hard to tell if a person is depressed unless they break down in front of you or manage to tell you themselves. Depression doesn’t leave scars, not always. And it’s hard to say how bad it is if you can’t see the wound. I've been suffering from depression for a long time now, and depression has … Continue reading Depression is not simple – it’s more than being ‘sad’
Why do some people become more interested in people who ignore them?
I’m answering this from a woman’s point of view and I prefer the word ‘aloof’ rather than ‘ignore’. Most women have found that when they’re not really into a man, some men will come on even stronger. They’re attracted to women who appear unavailable. Women who are aloof always do seem to get the guy, because they … Continue reading Why do some people become more interested in people who ignore them?
Negativities
” I can't dance. ”” I can't sing. ”” I can't draw. ”In short, I don't have talents.” I'm afraid of people. ”” I'm afraid of the world. ”” I'm afraid to the society. ”In short, I'm a coward.” They will hurt me. ”” They will forget me. ”” They will leave me, someday. ”In … Continue reading Negativities
An Open Letter To Myself
How are you? I hope you are doing so well in life right now. To start off with, I am so proud of you. Life hasn’t been too easy on you lately, and I am truly sorry about that. But despite it all, you have managed to keep your head up and continue fighting throughout. … Continue reading An Open Letter To Myself
Does True Love Exist?
Yes, true love definitely exists, but it isn't what most people expect. There are many things that you have to learn during a relationship (even when you're already married), it can't all already be there on a first date. The way I see it, true love is something to be “acquired” and “fought for”. It … Continue reading Does True Love Exist?
What is the easiest way to forget someone special?
Some people are just really difficult to let go of. Do not hope that things may one day change. Relax and accept the fact that the person you cared is gone. You simply need to focus your mind on yourself and your goals. It is so annoying when you realize that you’re the only one … Continue reading What is the easiest way to forget someone special?
What is the best way to get revenge on someone who broke your heart?
“Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” The void doesn’t go away after revenge. In fact, when you put attention on the pain, it lingers longer. It may feel good to think about ways to make the other person feel pain, but it’s a temporary high that leaves you … Continue reading What is the best way to get revenge on someone who broke your heart?
How weird is it to be in love with two people at the same time? Is it genuinely possible? Does that make someone stupid, or is it just a rule that our great society has come up with for us?
You cannot have the same feelings for 2 different people at the same time. Though you might feel you love them equally, one is definitely closer to your heart than the other. Try this once: ~ Take a break from both for say, a week. Whom do you miss more? Who do you secretly wish … Continue reading How weird is it to be in love with two people at the same time? Is it genuinely possible? Does that make someone stupid, or is it just a rule that our great society has come up with for us?
Here’s the truth, ladies…
Being pretty doesn't keep a man. Being honest doesn't keep a man. Being loyal doesn't keep a man. Treating a man good doesn't keep a man. Being there for a man doesn't keep a man. Caring about a man doesn't keep a man. Making an effort doesn't keep a man. Paying attention to a man … Continue reading Here’s the truth, ladies…