Tag: Deserving

How weird is it to be in love with two people at the same time? Is it genuinely possible? Does that make someone stupid, or is it just a rule that our great society has come up with for us?

You cannot have the same feelings for 2 different people at the same time. Though you might feel you love them equally, one is definitely closer to your heart than the other. Try this once: ~ Take a break from both for say, a week. Whom do you miss more? Who do you secretly wish … Continue reading How weird is it to be in love with two people at the same time? Is it genuinely possible? Does that make someone stupid, or is it just a rule that our great society has come up with for us? →

Here’s the truth, ladies…

Being pretty doesn't keep a man. Being honest doesn't keep a man. Being loyal doesn't keep a man. Treating a man good doesn't keep a man. Being there for a man doesn't keep a man. Caring about a man doesn't keep a man. Making an effort doesn't keep a man. Paying attention to a man … Continue reading Here’s the truth, ladies… →

I’m heartbroken. How do I remind myself that I’m worthy?

Broken hearts are mainly caused by unfulfilment of our expectations coupled with low self-esteem. Often we think so low of ourselves, we put our whole life in the hands of one person to get 'happiness' and when that happiness is withdrawn, the pain of losing it is too much to bear. We meet someone, we like … Continue reading I’m heartbroken. How do I remind myself that I’m worthy? →

What if I fell in love with a girl who is very happily committed?

There is no good ending. You fell in love with her, I get it. But here’s the thing... you can love her and she could love you back, but it still won’t end well. You and her can develop an emotional relationship, fall in love, and have an affair. No matter what, it won’t succeed. … Continue reading What if I fell in love with a girl who is very happily committed? →

How can I move on from my ex when he doesn’t want me anymore, but I still love him?

Allow time to heal you and how you’re feeling. Think about it... if that person doesn’t want to be in your life anymore, why would you want to force someone into something that they don’t want to do anymore? Knowing that you still like them, always remember that you can still LOVE someone deeply and … Continue reading How can I move on from my ex when he doesn’t want me anymore, but I still love him? →

If you fall in love with someone who is struggling financially, would you ditch them?

I would say it's a big NO! This question should be answered with another question. How shallow are you? You can't control who you fall in love with. However, you can control whether or not you will hurt someone later on when you are too unhappy because they are unable to fulfill your dreams of … Continue reading If you fall in love with someone who is struggling financially, would you ditch them? →

My Relationship Has “No Future”, But That’s Okay

To love is to brave separation, heartbreak, risk, pain, death, and a thousand other things. Loving a man who cannot stay has taught me more than I ever imagined. I am in love with a guy who is not here to stay. We met in the college. While he cannot give me promises of "happily ever … Continue reading My Relationship Has “No Future”, But That’s Okay →

How long should I wait after a breakup to begin dating again?

It’s different for everybody to be honest... but I’d say there are some important questions you should ask yourself after a break up. For one, if you feel the need to jump back into the dating pool so quickly, perhaps there is something to learn first? Are you trying to fill a void? Are you … Continue reading How long should I wait after a breakup to begin dating again? →