Negativities

” I can't dance. ”” I can't sing. ”” I can't draw. ”In short, I don't have talents.” I'm afraid of people. ”” I'm afraid of the world. ”” I'm afraid to the society. ”In short, I'm a coward.” They will hurt me. ”” They will forget me. ”” They will leave me, someday. ”In … Continue reading Negativities

How weird is it to be in love with two people at the same time? Is it genuinely possible? Does that make someone stupid, or is it just a rule that our great society has come up with for us?

You cannot have the same feelings for 2 different people at the same time. Though you might feel you love them equally, one is definitely closer to your heart than the other. Try this once: ~ Take a break from both for say, a week. Whom do you miss more? Who do you secretly wish … Continue reading How weird is it to be in love with two people at the same time? Is it genuinely possible? Does that make someone stupid, or is it just a rule that our great society has come up with for us?

I’m heartbroken. How do I remind myself that I’m worthy?

Broken hearts are mainly caused by unfulfilment of our expectations coupled with low self-esteem. Often we think so low of ourselves, we put our whole life in the hands of one person to get 'happiness' and when that happiness is withdrawn, the pain of losing it is too much to bear. We meet someone, we like … Continue reading I’m heartbroken. How do I remind myself that I’m worthy?

How long should I give my ex space before I contact him again?

If he was the one that broke up with you, the suggestion I would give is quite a bit counter intuitive. I would suggest not contacting him for any reason… period. The longer you stay off his radar, the best chance he has to miss you and feel the need to reach out to you. … Continue reading How long should I give my ex space before I contact him again?

If you fall in love with someone who is struggling financially, would you ditch them?

I would say it's a big NO! This question should be answered with another question. How shallow are you? You can't control who you fall in love with. However, you can control whether or not you will hurt someone later on when you are too unhappy because they are unable to fulfill your dreams of … Continue reading If you fall in love with someone who is struggling financially, would you ditch them?