I’m heartbroken. How do I remind myself that I’m worthy?

Broken hearts are mainly caused by unfulfilment of our expectations coupled with low self-esteem. Often we think so low of ourselves, we put our whole life in the hands of one person to get 'happiness' and when that happiness is withdrawn, the pain of losing it is too much to bear. We meet someone, we like … Continue reading I’m heartbroken. How do I remind myself that I’m worthy?

What if I fell in love with a girl who is very happily committed?

There is no good ending. You fell in love with her, I get it. But here’s the thing... you can love her and she could love you back, but it still won’t end well. You and her can develop an emotional relationship, fall in love, and have an affair. No matter what, it won’t succeed. … Continue reading What if I fell in love with a girl who is very happily committed?

How long should I give my ex space before I contact him again?

If he was the one that broke up with you, the suggestion I would give is quite a bit counter intuitive. I would suggest not contacting him for any reason… period. The longer you stay off his radar, the best chance he has to miss you and feel the need to reach out to you. … Continue reading How long should I give my ex space before I contact him again?

How do I stop loving my ex and stop trying to get him/her back?

We don’t quit loving someone just because the relationship is over.  MOVING ON -- Letting go of the past For many people one of the hardest things when a relationship transitions is to move on and let go of the past. Humans tend to live in our past and our future and forget that the … Continue reading How do I stop loving my ex and stop trying to get him/her back?

My Relationship Has “No Future”, But That’s Okay

To love is to brave separation, heartbreak, risk, pain, death, and a thousand other things. Loving a man who cannot stay has taught me more than I ever imagined. I am in love with a guy who is not here to stay. We met in the college. While he cannot give me promises of "happily ever … Continue reading My Relationship Has “No Future”, But That’s Okay