Don’t Change… BECOME!

Me: Hey God. God: Hello..... Me: I'm falling apart. Can you put me back together? God: I would rather not. Me: Why? God: Because you aren't a puzzle. Me: What about all of the pieces of my life that are falling down onto the ground? God: Let them stay there for a while. They fell … Continue reading Don’t Change… BECOME!

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Depression is not simple – it’s more than being ‘sad’

It’s hard to tell if a person is depressed unless they break down in front of you or manage to tell you themselves. Depression doesn’t leave scars, not always. And it’s hard to say how bad it is if you can’t see the wound. I've been suffering from depression for a long time now, and depression has … Continue reading Depression is not simple – it’s more than being ‘sad’

What is the best way to get revenge on someone who broke your heart?

“Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” The void doesn’t go away after revenge. In fact, when you put attention on the pain, it lingers longer. It may feel good to think about ways to make the other person feel pain, but it’s a temporary high that leaves you … Continue reading What is the best way to get revenge on someone who broke your heart?

I’m heartbroken. How do I remind myself that I’m worthy?

Broken hearts are mainly caused by unfulfilment of our expectations coupled with low self-esteem. Often we think so low of ourselves, we put our whole life in the hands of one person to get 'happiness' and when that happiness is withdrawn, the pain of losing it is too much to bear. We meet someone, we like … Continue reading I’m heartbroken. How do I remind myself that I’m worthy?

What if I fell in love with a girl who is very happily committed?

There is no good ending. You fell in love with her, I get it. But here’s the thing... you can love her and she could love you back, but it still won’t end well. You and her can develop an emotional relationship, fall in love, and have an affair. No matter what, it won’t succeed. … Continue reading What if I fell in love with a girl who is very happily committed?

How long should I give my ex space before I contact him again?

If he was the one that broke up with you, the suggestion I would give is quite a bit counter intuitive. I would suggest not contacting him for any reason… period. The longer you stay off his radar, the best chance he has to miss you and feel the need to reach out to you. … Continue reading How long should I give my ex space before I contact him again?