Here’s the truth, ladies…

Being pretty doesn't keep a man. Being honest doesn't keep a man. Being loyal doesn't keep a man. Treating a man good doesn't keep a man. Being there for a man doesn't keep a man. Caring about a man doesn't keep a man. Making an effort doesn't keep a man. Paying attention to a man … Continue reading Here’s the truth, ladies… →

I’m heartbroken. How do I remind myself that I’m worthy?

Broken hearts are mainly caused by unfulfilment of our expectations coupled with low self-esteem. Often we think so low of ourselves, we put our whole life in the hands of one person to get 'happiness' and when that happiness is withdrawn, the pain of losing it is too much to bear. We meet someone, we like … Continue reading I’m heartbroken. How do I remind myself that I’m worthy? →

How long should I give my ex space before I contact him again?

If he was the one that broke up with you, the suggestion I would give is quite a bit counter intuitive. I would suggest not contacting him for any reason… period. The longer you stay off his radar, the best chance he has to miss you and feel the need to reach out to you. … Continue reading How long should I give my ex space before I contact him again? →

How do I stop loving my ex and stop trying to get him/her back?

We don’t quit loving someone just because the relationship is over. MOVING ON -- Letting go of the past For many people one of the hardest things when a relationship transitions is to move on and let go of the past. Humans tend to live in our past and our future and forget that the … Continue reading How do I stop loving my ex and stop trying to get him/her back? →

Welcome to the 21st Century

Where sex is free and love is expensive. Where losing a phone is more painful than losing your virginity. Where modernization means nudity. Where if you do not drink or smoke, you are out of fashion. Where the kids flirt and pass negative comments to other girls. Where if you do not cheat on your … Continue reading Welcome to the 21st Century →

Why can’t I stop loving him/her?

Most relationships do not end by mutual agreement. More often than not, one partner falls out of love, while the other is still attached. If you are one of those people who thought your love was mutual, but ended up abandoned, you are not alone. Living with the grief of unexpected loss is hard enough. But if you … Continue reading Why can’t I stop loving him/her? →

Why is love so hard to understand?

Love is hard to understand mainly because of four aspects: ~ Love is not Passion ~ Love doesn’t actually mean anything ~ Men and Women love each other in a completely different way ~ Comprehension is not really needed, it’s more a question of acceptance No matter what Hollywood and Bollywood and Nollywood and all … Continue reading Why is love so hard to understand? →